Sandi, I agree that it would virtually impossible to stay under one roof after divorce. Separation will be hard enough on everyone. I may be making some progress on the 'divorce now' issue. Your other advice seems very on target; one of the things that I have noticed in looking for things that work is that assertive statements set a much better tone than any sort of equivocal statements. I will work very hard to keep the anger or confusion re: W actions. Can't control her behavior. Thank you again for your input, so far helpful and also great to know there are people out there to support me (and that I can help).
Me (47) W (42) D (18) adopted 2 years ago from Russia S (almost 16), S (13) M 19 years Bomb 10/09
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