First time poster feeling a bit lost

[MT21]

Thanks for the taking the time to reply, all of you in fact. It is very much appreciated.

Sandi, Sorry I wasnt trying to question your experience or wisdom here, its just I know that this is pure emotion on her part with very little thought to practicalities and what the real situation is going to present.

The truth is my emotions have run riot the last two weeks, 1st despair,then hurt confusion, then upbeat and now I'm angry, angry that she could do this to our family without saying anything. I don't feel angry about the way she feels but frustrated that I am, 1. Not able to penetrate the wall and 2. That I didn't see this coming.

Can I shout in here?

Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!

Sandi,

I will take some time to read you sitch..but may I ask how things turned out for you?

Thanks everyone

MT