Yeah, the time factor is rough but boundaries are boundaries. Look at it like this - you have two weeks to plant a powerful seed and nurture it. And really, whether you are state side or abroad - you have no control over what she will do anyway. You only control your message and your actions.
Careful about your boys. You'll be tempted to gather intel from them these two weeks and certainly when you leave again. Resist. Don't put the boys in that place. They are old enough to "see" but not old enough to understand. You just show them strong, loving Dad who is handling it. Know what I mean?
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