Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
Greek, yup, that is exactly what I am doing. All of my pay goes into MY account, she has NO access to that. December is the last month she gets to pay the bills, I am taking them over in January. This is a logistics issue, that I have to square away when I am there for R & R. Gotta hit her where it hurts her the most-the wallet. Not looking forward to hearing what PI has to say/show me next week...

SoldierDad


Bravo. Spot on.

What the PI brings will be what it is. That is the Reality for your M! and YOU. You will claw up from whatever the PI tells you. But it won't be about saving your M - it will be about taking care of YOU and YOUR SONS. She? That is up to her. She will either get on board with The Work, or she will leave. Accept the reality.

Bring it to the guys here. You can't go wrong.
Greek


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.