"well, then pack your bags and divorce me-that's what I have been telling you"
SoldierDad
"No, I am not leaving this house or my sons. You are the one who wants out - and you may go or not. But I am not leaving. If you continue to be unfaithful to our M, I will pack your things and store them in the garage. And yes, I will divorce you if you continue this A. This is what you can expect from me."
And then you do it.
Clearly your W is and has been unfullfilled in the M. Woman don't just .... stray. And you will need to deal with those issues but FIRST - you need to establish your boundaries. Otherwise, when y'all do get to the part where you are digging in the dirt of the marital issues, it will be a train wreck and not constructive. First the boundaries.
Is TX a fault state?
Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08