Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Coach, I don't feel at this time, that an affair is a deal breaker, but there has to be full disclosure, NC, and transparency from her. No access to any of these. Cell is through her work, seperate e-mail etc. We now have seperate accounts. My only issue with the boundary, if this even qualifies as an issue, is this: What is she just says, "well, then pack your bags and divorce me-that's what I have been telling you" or something similar? PI should be able to prove if true.

SoldierDad