Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Thanks Coach-everyone, I really appreciate it. No, she hasn't said that is what she would do, I am just preparing for the worst case. My chain of command is aware of my issues, and are extremely supportive. So, do I tell her I know about the OM, when I get back, as a part of my boundaries? Also, just got a voicemail from her, asking for the paypal password, she wanted to buy something, and then the last thing she said was "nice that you changed the passowrd and didn't tell me" click. I did change, it, and I linked it to my new account. She can open her own account. Not sure if I should call her back and tell her that-nope, never mind, not gonna do it. She is a big girl, she can do it.