Lostforwords........I understand how you feel. Completely.
Is the marriage really worth saving in the wrong run or should I cut my loses and start from scratch to hopefully find some one that may respect me and value me?

Exactly how I feel. I know my needs aren't being met, days I wonder if there is too much water under the bridge. Everyone tells me don't you want to be with a man who can love you the way you deserved to be loved? I'm having the hardest time letting go. I've known no one else. I've been with my H since high school. We have a son....been together 12 years. It's so very hard. I'm trying to let go and grieve but he can't leave me be.


Me: 31
H: 30
Son 2.5

Minnesota