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[SoldierDad]

Greek, sweet Jesus, that is some great advice! Thank you. You are absolutely right about all of it. I want to add this: I was raised to respect your woman, put her on a pedestal, do everything for her. What I have learned so far, is that seems nice-at first-but your woman quickly loses respect for you, because she KNOWS that you are going to do everything for her. I'm learning, slow but sure. An issue I see coming up is her losing it when I go to the house, and maybe calling police to have me removed. I have NO history in that, but I am just trying to think ahead. My boys will be with me, so they will be able to speak the truth about that, but how should I handle that-if she says she is going to call the police to have me removed? My boys are everything to me, and I hate to see them hurt, or put into the middle of all this. Thank you for taking the time to respond.

SoldierDad