Coach, saw the link on boundaries-thank you. My question is, how does someone put a boundary on something that he has no way of enforcing, in my case, because I will be leaving again in 2 weeks? I have an idea about how to set that boundary, but not sure. I feel disrespected because you have chosen OM over your own family. If you continue the affair, I will____. I dunno, just not sure how to broach this, and have it be effective, and set that boundary. I mean, she can say whatever she wants, but how will I really know-I'm half way around the world?


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