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[SoldierDad]

Sad Girl, not sure it would do any good. Right now, she is not the same woman I married. I'm just not sure what actions I need to be taking-other than the things coach has said-been working on thise for a while now. I am really worried about how I am going to react if there is in fact an OM. Everything points to that, so I guess it shouldn't be such a suprise, but it is gonna be a swift kick, if you know what I mean. Also, she has told her family the reason she is leaving, and they are all angry at her for doing so. I proposed MC when she first said it, but she just siad "you will never change". Then it turned into I don't love you anymore, to I fell out of love with you a long time ago. I mean, should I even work to keep this woman? I love her, but at what cost? I dunno. Do I tell her I know after I find out, if there is OM? It's just so much sometimes.