Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Coach, I am researching boundaries, but can't find a thread-is there one? Also, if I find out about OM, and have proof, do I tell her that I know, and how much I know-ie name address etc? She told me a week ago, that she is going to drop my truck, and the boys off at the airport, and that she hopes I have a place to stay. I haven't said anything to her about staying at the house, but that is exactly where I am staying. Also, should I sleep in our bed, or don't even push that? Sorry for so many questions, I have so many. This is made even more difficult, because I am so far away. I feel like the old -out of sight out of mind.