Just catching up with you here. Been MIA for past while so missed your D finalization.
The very best of luck to you at the start of this new chapter! You sound like a fab guy and I feel life for you will just get better and better.
DBing never fails, does it? Even if we don`t achieve our initial goal-saving the marriage-we`re left with all these wonderful improvements in ourselves(this is no time for modesty!!), have a better idea of what we want out of life and have a healthier approach to all relationships.