Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Puppy, thank you so much for responding. I have read many of your threads/discussions, and without knowing you, I would say you are a pretty good judge of things. The PI starts next week, and is only for 2 days-all I can afford. I don't know if I am prepared for the results, in that, I am a pretty emotional guy. Not sure how I will handle the truth. But, I am willing to work through it, if there is infidelity. The main thing is, will she? I will have to wait on the books until I get back for R & R next month. I am determined to stay at my home, and then take my boys on a road trip somewhere without her. She asked me where I am taking them, I just said that I didn't know yet. My question is, what can I do from so far away, to begin this difficult process? What do I do if I find out the OM is a reality? Do I confront her immediately? Do I expose it to family and friends? Do I just act as if I am fine with whatever decision she has made? I just have so many questions about this situation. Thanks again.