I get that, but I'm not involving myself with another guy, its too soon for one and I know that would be detrimental to our marriage. If there is OW which I know there isn't I would not give him the time of day. There are many of people on here that can forgive and forget, but I'm not one of them. I have been cheated on my whole life and I made myself a pact when I married H that I would not put up with it anymore, and therefore will not. We live in a very small town. There is absolutely no way he has OW. I would have heard by now, or I would have seen them. My SIL would have mentioned something for sure. I know my husband, and I know whats going on. Thanks SMQ for dropping in an offering your opinion and advise. I appreciate it. I will however take you up on the second part. I'm going to start playing up his curiosity a bit. The flowers worked out perfectly. Now if I can only figure out who actually sent them, so I can thank them for sending them at the perfect time! Ha Ha, just kidding. I do want to find out though. Its a mystery. But it sparked some jealousy in my H. I'll go for plan B towards the end of your post and see where it takes me. Thanks again!
Famous last words....
Never say NEVER, it will bite you in the ass when you least expect it. Why would your SIL have to know? Do you think he would tell her? For what purpose? It can't be happening while he's "working"? When people want to keep a secret, they'll do what it takes to keep a secret.
I hope you're right britt but sometimes planning for the worst is a smart thing to do.
