I would bet that your EX does want his old life back, problem is he's an addict and doesn't know what to do...That's the big reason for using instant gratification. If he could get through his thick head(I can say that cuz I was there)that if he just got help his life would be so much better, till then he has to deal with the life he's built.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
