I like to get our Xmas lights up as soon as possible so my son and I were going to do that yesterday morning. We didn't have a ladder so my son said he text'd exh to see if we could borrow his. Next thing I knew exh is at my house, and he and my son put up the lights. Whatever. When he left I said thanks and he said "I am not the monster you think I am". I didn't say anything.
Went to my family's for Tgiving and the whole time exh was texting to find out what time we were going to his sisters. I didn't respond until we were ready to go there. It was the strangest thing...the whole hour or so we were there exh sat on the chair looking depressed and I chased baby around. She is on the move and into everything, and this guy did nothing! Sat there. Baby wanted to run around outside so I was out there with her by myself for probably 3/4 of the time. I had brought dessert and just as his sister was getting ready to serve it exh told her to wrap a piece up he wanted to go home cuz he is tired! WTF! We didn't even get dessert. His other girls got there maybe 15 minutes before he left.
Then he started texting about how he misses us and how he wanted things to be different. I caved and told him thing could have been but he always chose other women over us.
Oh, he also looked like he was on some sort of pill yesterday. Real lethargic. He wasn't drinking, but I know he was on something. Oh, and when we were there he was texting the whole time. I am sure it was the married gf. It was so irritating and I felt the same sick feelings I used to. So he sat in the chair texting the whole time while I chased baby. He hardly even interacted with her.
Some things never change.
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Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
