Can I save my marriage?

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I get that, but I'm not involving myself with another guy, its too soon for one and I know that would be detrimental to our marriage. If there is OW which I know there isn't I would not give him the time of day. There are many of people on here that can forgive and forget, but I'm not one of them. I have been cheated on my whole life and I made myself a pact when I married H that I would not put up with it anymore, and therefore will not. We live in a very small town. There is absolutely no way he has OW. I would have heard by now, or I would have seen them. My SIL would have mentioned something for sure. I know my husband, and I know whats going on. Thanks SMQ for dropping in an offering your opinion and advise. I appreciate it. I will however take you up on the second part. I'm going to start playing up his curiosity a bit. The flowers worked out perfectly. Now if I can only figure out who actually sent them, so I can thank them for sending them at the perfect time! Ha Ha, just kidding. I do want to find out though. Its a mystery. But it sparked some jealousy in my H. I'll go for plan B towards the end of your post and see where it takes me. Thanks again!