Et Voila! my D8 is now D9....Just got off the phone with her and the XW (I am now officially divorced.)
I pick up D9 after school and I have a nice weekend planned....should be fun!
So I guess I need to move out of seperated and into surviving the big D....from newcomers to seperated...to piecing ,,,,to seperated and now my final move....all the boxes are packed....but I can't get this silly Gloria Gaynor song out of my head:

First I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
without you by my side
But I spent so many nights
thinking how you did me wrong
I grew strong
yada yada yada

i WILL survive LOL :-)