First time poster feeling a bit lost

[MT21]

Sandi,

You say shes thought about it...Has she?

I believe strongly that no-one has discussed the real trauma that comes from breaking up a family.
and even if she thought about it.. the penny hasn't really dropped.

The trip will/(if agreed) will be tough especially without her but it may make her think about the above.

It may also make her see that I am getting on with my life.

She spoke to her sister before dropping the bomb, I wondered what you views were on me talking to her or even some of her close friends. After all they only have one side of the story. and its that side of the story that their "good advice" is being dished out on.

I understand your comments about rubbing her face on it though. (I already did the photo thing...before coming here.. :\ )

MT