Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Forgot to mention, W has said she has seen Attorney-through Legal Aid. I have checked the city courthouse web page, and there is nothing to indicate any kind of filing. This could be due to Soldiers Sailors relief act-preventing them from proceeding until I get back, or she has just gotten advice from them. Not sure which. Sorry I am piecing all these things, but I am trying to add as much info on my sitch, to get the most help. Financial info: I am Military-high ranking enlisted. W makes 1/3 what I make. W has been misinformed on amount of CS she will be getting. Texas law states 25% (for 2 kids), of GROSS income minus SINGLE taxes, and health care. Do I tell her what she is actually going to get? I think NO, as it is another way to "bait" her into a fight/discussion. Also, Whenever she goes out-she tells my boys she is going out with her Girlfriend (mentioned above)-not sure that is the truth though. Is there any additional info I need to provide? Please, I need your help, I am headed back in 2 weeks, and I want to be prepared for eveything she will throw at me-well, as best as I can be. Thanks.