oh yeah, and I should mention that when he and this girl were talking, I was in the room, and most of what I heard my ex was talking to her about was things he and I have done (Ex..a place we went to a long time ago) and my 2 daughters and our s. That kind of made me feel good, but I'm just feeling hopeless again, and a little angry! I made our favorite TG Traditions (foods) mostly for him and I had told him so, about a week ago. Asked him if he wanted a glass of wine and got it for him. Things like that. We were instructed to sit next to each other at the dinner table, so that's probably the only reason he did.