Okay, maybe it was me who was misunderstanding your posts. It sounded like obsessing.
I'm sorry it came across that way. It wasn't intentional.
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As long as you can move forward now, and stop thinking about her all the time, then you will start personal growth. That will be good for you and your little girl.
I can't stop thinking about W all the time at the moment. What I can say is it's not as quite at the forefront of my mind as it was which is a good thing. I also now notice periods where I am not thinking about her at all which is new.
She is still the last thing I think of at night, the first thing I think of in the morning and I still have the 'dreams' which aren't as nice and sweet as they were before.
I will get there with or without her.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"