Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Rain, no, no history of that, I am just trying to be one step ahead of her. I agree about the home, and in the past, I think I would have just left, or not gone back. But now, after reading threads here, I am empowering myself, and refuse to let her have her way in this. The JAG folks can only offer advice, they really bring nothing in the way of help. I have not hired an attorney, but have contacted one-about a month ago.
Tulsa, I agree about infidelity, she has written to me that "I made her do this", and she doesn't want to hurt me, and has said multiple times that she wants me to get orders to go to a different base-overseas. So, ya, I agree, there is probably someone else. Not sure how I am going to handle that if that bomb drops. Is it normal for them to be so emotionally detached, or is it an "act"? Does she really feel that way? I just don't know how she can go from loving me with all her heart, to, I fell out of love with you a long time ago, in such a short time. If it IS infidelity, I beleive that, if she is transparent, and is truly sorry, I could somehow forgive her, but not completely positive of that. I have done a pretty good job w/NC/180, but it doesn't seem to be having ANY effect. Thanks for listening to me, I really appreciate it.