Hmmm, interesting thoughts...it certainly wasn't meant to be seen as pursuing. If anything, it was my way of saying I was completely dropping the rope. I'm moving on with my life without her. I don't call her, don't text her and only offer up the scarcest bits of my life when she asks. I've gone about as dark as I can at this point.

I did feel bad for my childish behavior, so I was probably more humble than I should have been. But the only thing I asked for...said I wouldn't tolerate the lack of...was civility when it came to our contact for the sake of s7. Not quite sure what "show of strength" I could have followed it up with. Forgot that I did mention that being almost 2 1/2 hours late from a scheduled time for pickup was absolutely unacceptable, and that for now on I would be bringing s7 over myself instead of having her pick him up, and that I would be picking him back up at the agreed time.

The offer to help her technologically was simply because she is such a neophyte, I wanted to make sure that she was actually able to access the drive, but I don't intend to be her "Geek Rescue" man any time she has problems. I definitely won't be going out of my way to help her out.


Me 45 WAW 36
S8
T 15 M 12
Multiple PA's since 6/07
W moved out 10/25/09
I filed D 12/29/09
Sitch