Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
That didn't go well.


Did you really expect it to? He's not happy, you have not done as he expected.. he's going to make sure you don't feel 'well' about things... he's had years of practice.

Originally Posted By: spybunny
The timing is still a big issue, the secrecy, and now what he's fuming about is ....
... blah, blah, blah, blah.. all script. there will ALWAYS be something he's fuming about

Originally Posted By: spybunny
My mistake to bring it up, and not telling H after.
You have every right to have a conversation with your ADULT son & not include H in that.

Originally Posted By: spybunny
I'm exhausted.


yep, drained, numb, confused, scared, unsure, anxious, ... all perfectly normal.

take care of yourself first & foremost.

As one WAW posted for quite awhile on these boards
...in the event of an emergency, put your own oxygen mask first before assisting others.

You CAN handle this.
Peace
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Mom to two amazing kids

Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.

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