I am starting to think about how awful Xmas will be.. I thought I might suggest to take the Children away for Xmas break just a few days...She is welcome to join.(Of course)
Is that a good idea?
My thinking. 1.If she comes we might have fun..she'll see what shes giving up? or 2. she wont come, thinking I am moving on with my life..and feel v.comfortable with that. And it may give her more space to really decide shes going?
What do you think..?
Number one doesn't work in the mind of a WAW. She's already thought of all that a long time ago.
If you could apply number two.....and really move on with your life, then she would find you much more attractive than she does at this time.
Become the man she fell in love with. Be strong, confident, and decisive. Stop trying to find gimmicks that will get her back. Work on you.
Did your doctor know you were trying to give up drinking and smoking at the same time? That seems to be a huge task to undertake. How are you doing with it?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
