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Yes, she does.

Stick with the plan. You are doing fine.

And, I understand the logic v emotions.


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EB,
Originally Posted By: Energizer Bunny
I still have the feelings of a husband whose wife is in pain.
We can ALL empathize with this one. One of the toughest parts, early on. Make sure you and your Son have a good day. You'll be alright.
She'll be alright. Even if today is painful for, that's alright, too. She has to feel and grow through the pain as you do.
As we all do.

Happy Thanksgiving.


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Thanks Gardner. Happy Turkey day!


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She just came and got the dog. S is staying here tonight. He begged her not to go.

Brutal.

It actually helps that I am a little dead inside.


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Originally Posted By: Energizer Bunny
S is staying here tonight. He begged her not to go. Brutal.
It actually helps that I am a little dead inside.
Brutal is right.
Chin up, buck up, man up and all that good stuff for your son, though. right?
Endure.


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I handled it. I let her take care of it.

Still brutal. Probably a good thing for W to have to deal with.

I took S to the neighbor's house to play with their kids. He bounced Baker pretty quickly.


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Hang in there. Stay busy.

Had she planned to pick up the dog?


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S wanted the dog to stay with him when he came home this morning. She came back at the agreed upon time.

The dog will normally just ay at her place I assume.

Last edited by Energizer Bunny; 11/27/09 12:24 AM.

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Hi EB-

from one Bunny to another smile

I'm sorry the last couple days have been so rough for you. Stay strong- your S is lucky to have you for his Dad.


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Thanks Spy Bunny. I hope you had as good of a Thanksgiving as possible.

It looks like you're on a similar course.


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