One of my friends mentioned that I've done everything I could to end the A and make it as easy as possible for us to attempt to R.
I can understand how frustrating that can be. I know you've mentioned it in earlier posts. If only she would just say that trigger / keyword and you'd spring into action. But you know she will never say it because she is too much of a coward to?
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As for me keeping my coworker as a backup, the problem is that she's not close to where I'd be living, and is very much tied up with her work and her child (and no, she's single), so I won't get a chance to see her. Perhaps emotionally she can fulfill some of my needs in the short term, but time and distance tend to undermine that.
I was meaning more as an emotional backup rather than a physical one. She will fulfil your needs if W doesn't come back?
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I won't contact her much, but I may respond to texting or e-mails a little faster or have short text convos.
Why would you contact her at all though?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
