First time poster feeling a bit lost

[MT21]

Quick question, any advice.

So we are talking but not about R only day to day stuff.

I am starting to think about how awful Xmas will be..
I thought I might suggest to take the Children away for Xmas break just a few days...She is welcome to join.(Of course)

Is that a good idea?

My thinking.
1.If she comes we might have fun..she'll see what shes giving up?
or
2. she wont come, thinking I am moving on with my life..and feel v.comfortable with that.
And it may give her more space to really decide shes going?


What do you think..?