OK, so saying all of that, what do you suggest? Are you saying that I should divorce her? Kick her out? I'm looking for options. In my situation I have very limited choices.
I can't tell you what to do wolverine1997 as far as divorcing her or kicking her out...I don't know your particular situation. And I don't know what the ramifications would be if you established boundries and started respecting and valuing yourself, and detatched from those who don't value or respect you. But, whatever those ramifications would be...you would be better off as a man and person as opposed to continuing on the way you are! The things I've mentioned are universal and in your best interests, regardless of particular situations and particular ramifications. I can't be more specific, but first and foremost you must respect and value yourself in order to be a happy, whole, and fulfilled person.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
