No. I think Britt has wasted alot of valuable time here.
Your husband more than likely has a married girlfriend on the side.
Married cause if she was single they would probably be shacked up. That is why he comes around sometimes then doesnt others. Explains why his mood swings to and fro (you journal over and over why is this) why? cause he gets to see her sometimes, happy but doesnt want much to do with you, then her husband is around or she is family orientated for a bit or on the rag and he doesnt see her and he takes it out on you or comes and gets some from you, (because you are always hanging on in love with your husband.) its probably been going on for a while. its addictive. fun and sinfully challenging not to get caught. they're the funnest actually, cuz, they go on and off then on again. never gets too serious. they dont have to be accountable to eachother but the desire for eachother is always there. always getting pented up.
and the girl in the corner at the banquet. the girl from 10th grade. honestly, the girls that have liked the guy all their lives and never got em, are the ones that take their own clothes off. just to try' em out when they are older to see if they were ever actually as good as they taught. and if they are married even better and your husband does advertise himself as available. you know that, dont you?. there's more to her than you know. "cant stand her, dont like her", uh huh, thats the some serious chemistry. i wont go on.
I'll prove it to you.
Dump you husband. 100% gone. I'm done. get lost loser. and start something up with some other guy.
if he really doesnt want anything to do with you, he wont give a crap in the least. why should he. if he isnt getting seriously addicted to someone else then he's really only a boy in a man's body who doesnt/never liked you, got married thinking he had to because you were pregnant, and cant accept the responsibility of his own wife and children. right? just a lousy situation he found himself in and now she wants out. thank god.
however,
if there is someone else on the side, getting dumped, and realizing some other guy is probably doing your wife is an immediate wake up call.
why? because in reality they still want you. it just something(someone) new and different is opening there legs for them. You can go in for the kill and we can help you out. things turn around real fast and you are in charge for a change. Whether you want to believe it or not you sparked interest, concern and some jealousy in your husband. You can play that to your benefit and experience some different results.
you think im wrong? maybe he's having a mid-life crisis @ 25? LOL. or he's just addicted to hockey? and living with his sister. nice life for a grown man with children right? but perfect for someone who gots a wife depressed and desperate for him and a little action on the side occassionally. Cant do Mrs. Browne tonight, guess i go watch my buddies play hockey then go drinking, that waitress at the bar has been looking back.
heres's a test. get a job at the mall or someplace where a bunch of young guys work. see your husbands concern. buy yourself some sexy sleepwear, fredricks of hollywood style, and a book about sexual positions keep it in your dressing table but never tell him or let him see them. when he watches the kids and you go out he goes through your stuff. I will 100% guarantee that. maybe if there were 2 condoms in a box of 3 in between your teddies and you came home (from the non-of your business mall) with just a faint hint of mens cologne on your clothes, you would experience different results. he probably be moving home real f'ing fast.
