Teddy, I find there are good days and bad days. I think of it like climate and weather. The climate is warm & balmy, the weather can be rainy & miserable. But.....the climate always returns.
Also....price and value. I'm paying a very high price, but I'm getting a great value.
I am not being emotionally or verbally abused in a relationship any longer. I do not regret ending my marriage to that man.
I do miss being held. I do miss having someone to watch a movie with on a cold night, & snuggle. I will have these things again. Once I have grown to the point that I have good healthy boundaries and am able to be assertive and have a healthy relationship with a man.
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M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
