Is this the end of my marriage?

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EN = Emotional Needs. She knows that they are gone now. Its different than what was happening before.

Is this what I read earlier - OM meets EN's 1 and 2 and LBS meets 3 and 4. When LBS goes dark, OM must meet 1, 2, 3 and 4?

I would take all that stuff of hers and drop it off with IM.
Have IM contact her to pick it up. Put it in garbage bags. Anything else of hers left you should get rid of as well. Or play the game of her needing one more thing... Just one more thing....
Remember this is what IM does.
Do not drop it off at her work.
This is not life and death or very important stuff about the R.
Keep to your boundaries.

Okay, done. It is EASIER for me to drop it off at her work, however that isn't the point. IM can arrange with her where SHE can pick it up.

I did get the distinct impression in W's email that she thought I was some kind of delivery service.

I am going to setup an email rule to forward all future emails from W to the IM. I didn't do this before as I didn't know her email address!