He has to project all his guilt and bad feelings on you; that's what he does...always.
Yes, that's what he does and it's how he gets at you, into you. Every time. Not this time!
Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
Everything he says to you is really about him.
SD's spot on here, too. keep reminding yourself. Will a repeated answer like, "I am not going to discuss this today. I'll talk to you tomorrow." back him down at all?
Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
...stop feeding into the role he's written for you.
Bunny, you know the way SD phrased this summarizes your entire sitch. Not today! Not this weekend!Be unshakeable. Be that mirror. Deflect. Buy into nothing!! There is no, "well maybe he's right, there," He is right about nothing! Go into the bathroom often to center yourself, calm yourself. Summon up all you've learned. How far you've come. How much clarity you've gained. Think of us. We're out he here. Right now. Praying, hoping, watching along.
You are out of that role now, woman! For good!
(((((Bunny)))))
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
