Okay the business and a few other things have basically blown over.
I talked to my DB coach on Tuesday and she really help me identify what is not working here and what I need to change.
At this point I am working on the less is more principle.
One thing that I am struggling with is that my wife is going to the "Parenting after separation" course tonight which in my province is manditory for a legal separation to be granted.
How do I handle this with her? I mean do I ask how it was? Do I try and validate her on it or what?
I guess I could be really tired and in bed when she gets home.
I think basically of course it feels like one more step towards separation and I don't want to talk about it and get pissed off and fight about it. Or get needy about it.
