How about showing more affection towards the KIDS?
As for talking about things, sounds like she wants you to agree with her decison to leave. Remember, this is a decision SHE is making. Don't let her make this a joint decision.
By making it a joint decision, she is removing some of the guilt. She can say to herself and friends "we both agreed to go our seperate ways".
Don't let her make that decision for you. Enjoy the weekend.
