Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

Look at what you wrote, P17. You want to contact her to tell you you "really mean" no contact??

Nope!

Puppy

LOL ... I know. Sorry. I initially just wanted to reiterate the NC stuff. Note that I was just thinking about it.

As I said, she has and the letter AND I had to explain it to her on Monday as she arrived (so I had no choice). She has no excuse so after thinking about it I really didn't see the point of explaining it AGAIN as all it's doing is keeping the thing going that I am trying to explain I don't want ... just as you said.

She simply does not believe that I mean the NC, and to be honest I can't blame her. The only saving grace is that the contact I did make about my mum was through the IM as I said it would be. I have NOT contacted her at all in any other way since the NC letter. I HAD to speak to her on Monday when she came here but that was another of her tests which I passed, I think!

I won't be responding to the email or any further communications. NC means NC. NC means complete NC.

Thank goodness for this forum!