Counseling conundrums

[Virtually_Handsome]

I agree with the others. Don't even talk about money. Nothing good, and lots bad can come of it. Right now, the less he thinks you know, the better. Don't help him out.

[SpyBunny]

Don't worry, Gardener-I'm not telling them tomorrow. That's part of Friday's activities: get keys, transfer funds, tell H and kids, and pack.

My parents are gonna have a b!tch of a time tomorrow while they're here for Thanksgiving. They know I'm leaving this weekend and have to act normal around h and the kids. I told them I couldn't change plans without arousing suspicion.

[Gardener]

Good about Friday; I couldn't tell at first the way it was worded.

Betcha your parents do fine.

[SpyBunny]

He knows.

[breakaway]

Is he reading your computer?

[SpyBunny]

He got an email from the bank about the funds transfer. I didn't know they did that.

He's mad that I surprised him with this, and especially mad that I'm ruining the kids Christmas.

[SpyBunny]

He thought this would be a jointly planned exit after the holidays.

[SpyBunny]

I feel like sh!t.

[hoosiermama]

are you safe?

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((Bunny)))))

You are not ruining the kids' Christmas!

I still believe that you are doing the right thing. Stay safe, and stay strong.