This may be the best thing to happen to your sitch. I feel like when my H actually left he started to realize what he is missing and what he wants in life. Also I wouldn't be where I am today. I have learned so much about myself and who I am, and what kind of mom and wife I really want to be. So when my H finally puts his head on straight and comes home I will be ready to build an everlasting HEALTHY marriage. When H and I did the whole "in house separation" thing, it just wasn't the same. You are probably realizing alot of things right now, things you may not have looked at if she was still there. Take this time to grow. It will better yourself as a person. It will give you more strength then you knew you had. I promise you that.


M: 31
H: 29
Married: 6 yrs
Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old





Separated: Sept. '09
Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09
Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10
Threatening to leave again: July,14