Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

IGNORE IT.

Test one from her.

Remember what I said a few pages back.

I was actually just re-reading what you said a few pages back when your reply to this was posted.

She will come at you now.

So get ready.

I did say a few pages back that I didn't think she would, and to be honest I still don't. But you were right last time so what do I know!

She just lost P17's and D's EN's.

What do you mean by that?

@PDT:

I would not reply. "No contact" means no contact.

The only contact I was thinking of making was to reiterate the NC and set that boundary again. But, as I said above, she's a big girl and has had it explained to her twice so far.

I would be sure to drop off her stuff (less anything you feel is rightly yours; #3 is neither fair nor realistic, and it's only going to cause more unnecessary back-and-forth than what she's worth at this point) at her workplace, at my earliest convenience.

Earliest convenience is at least two weeks away as that's when I will be up there getting the Xmas stuff.

I would be sure not to duplicate your daughter's Christmas gift.

I have already bought it though.

#1 and #4 are needless mind-reading/enmeshment -- DETACH. "Whatever." Or, as SmileyPerson likes to say, "Smile and wave."

You're right. I just wanted to vent a little though especially at the name. That REALLY bugs me. If she wants a D as badly as she says, then use her maiden name.

#5 is good awareness on your point -- use that knowledge to react (or, in this case, NOT react) accordingly.
Happy Thanksgiving, P. Try to enjoy the day, and be thankful for your daughter and your newfound strength.

We don't celebrate Thanksgiving over the pond but Happy Thanksgiving to you too and everybody else.

Strength I need to keep.
Puppy