Can I save my marriage?

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Well H got over the "flower" thing quite quickly. About 10:00 last night there was a knock at the door. I went to answer it and it was H. Hmmm. In seven weeks he has yet to stop in on his night shift. He is a police man, so being in his car all night he said he needed the washroom. He went, then wandered to the kitchen, looked in the pantry for a snack, looked in the fridge but nothing. I made cookies last evening so I offered him some cookies, he accepted. Flirted a bit and then went back to work. Hmmm...so did he really have to pee, or did he come to check up on me after I received those flowers, or did he just need to see me? The guy was cold in conversation yesterday but then show up at my doorstep? Good thing though is he knocked for the first time. Looks like my boundary setting is SLOWLY coming around.