He wants to come home....HELP!

[praying_in_GA]

Thanks guys. Of course, you are right.

Coach - I have read the book "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and it hit on all of the points you made.

I need to find a balance between the strong independent woman I became and the loving attentive woman I should be. I want him to know that I am here for him while he goes through the changes he feels he needs to make and I need to continue to change myself for the better.

He had a good time with the guys last night. I told him he could come home if he wanted to and I had the spare room ready for him. When I woke up this morning he was asleep in 'his' room. I guess it is time to start putting this marriage back together and show him the woman he wants to be with.

Happy Thanskgiving everyone!