[quote]Being the weather geek for our baseball league, they picked me to make the weather calls of whether or not to cancel games, umpires, etc. In Florida, with our "afternoon pop-up thunderstorms," that can be difficult. I made a decision early on never to cancel the games based on a FORECAST (what MIGHT happen), but rather by what the situation is on the ground at the moment./quote]

I flew for 9 years in the Air Force and that was our rule, "Never cancel on the forecast."

You are imagining the worst case scenario (catastrophizing)what might happen. The OW has all the control in this sitch if she knows you two are afraid. She can blackmail your family because of your fears. She might be a bunny boiler and she might not be. But letting her call the shots makes you feel hopeless, scared, and out of control. You control your thoughts and actions. Think thru this, get help and stay aware. You can handle it.

Cheers

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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.