i am happy to pray for ya doc. it is a part of serving others that we all have in us and which pleases the Lord.
And seeing as things continue to go real well with you and W I will follow them up with some more. Though there is no such thing as a prayer master it can be done by any and all folks and the results are astounding.
It seems you are getting the hang of the piecing and are developing systems and methods that work. Prepare to follow through with them for a life time just as I am attempting to do likewise.
May the blessings of peace be plentiful and flourish in your house and wherever you are.
Hope EVERYONE had a great thanksgiving. Ours went great. Wife cooked most of the day before and Thanksgiving Day. Me? I did house cleaning. The turkey was fantastic but I ate so much I had no room for pie. The only thing that went bad was that wife broke one of her china bowls. (At least it was her that broke it) After everyone left wife finely had a chance to sit down and when she was in the other room I cleaned up the table and put stuff away. When W cam back in she thanked me for cleaning up. (She did not have to thank me) I gave her a kiss and told her every thing was great. She asked me if I wanted to go to the movies today with her and our son and I said sure. I am still playing it cool. As much as I want to hug her and kiss her and just start all over I am waiting to start the pursuing again until the x mas party….Ok if the feeling is right I may try to hold her hand in the way to the movies….
Take care Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Well I guess it’s time for a little update (unless ya all are bored with the wishy washy Doc).
Things are going really well. Of course no R talk but everything else is great. W is really taking an interest in my activities. It almost feels like we are at where we were before all this started. Now there have not been any I love you’s but w does call me out of the blue just to tell me something that could wait until I got home, She has started putting my clothes away for me, She has been thinking of me and asking me if I want things like things to eat or going to the movies. And last night she noticed me having to get up and going to the bathroom allot during a movie. She asked if I was having problems with my Prostrate again. I said I have been having problems for some time now. She asked if I was still taking the medicine I said no and she told me I should start taking it again. Then this morning the first thing she told me was that I really should go get some more medicine for my Prostrate… Ok I know I am a big boy and I know I can take care of myself but I have to tell ya it sure does feel good when someone worries about ya. I think I am ready to take it up a notch. The X mas party is next weekend. I am just going to be myself. Be myself on a date with a woman I have known for a while and I really like and I feel she likes me. If all goes well I am going to see if I can talk her into spending the night at “my place” I think I have rounded that final turn and am heading into the home stretch… Got ta go W called and she is on her way home from visiting her mother. She is stopping at IN n OUT burger and picking ME up a double double………
Bye
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Well… IT”S GOING TO SNOW HERE IN CALIFORNIA… I live about 20 miles from the coast and it’s going to freeze down to sea level...
Ok things are still going great. Last night W and I sat down and watched a movie together. Before the movie my Wife asked me if I wanted a Margarita and made us both a drink then half way through the movie she made a plate of cheeses and crackers and then told me “this is for you too Doc have some”
We have our tree up and I did get the outside lights on before the rain started. Now there is no intimacy yet but I do feel W pursuing me in her own little way. I am still Doing my own thing and accepting her ‘niceness’ but not becoming clingy. When we went to get our X mas tree the guy at the tree farm asked me if we had a tree stand and I told him ya. Wife did not hear what he said and asked me “What did he say to you?” I told her he was just telling me how beautiful you looked. She smiled and said ya right and laughed…
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I am doing good OT. I do see changes in W. (AMD I DID NOT MAKE HER CHANGE) at least not directly. I guess just taking care of myself did it. The saying from the film, 'Field of Dreams' "build it and they will come" ya know. I am building a new Doc The old wife, Doc and Marriage is GONE. I am NOT walking on egg shells but I do have to be careful the old Doc does not resurface again. Son just came in (its 6:30 am) to see if it snowed this morning. It didn't... He is all upset because he wanted school to be canceled today. Oh well... Back to W and I... We have been doing little things for each other like when you first start dating someone. I have been keeping the fireplace lit for her... she has been making me snacks, she asks me to go places with her. I have been cleaning up around the house. When she does ask me to do something I don’t put it off however I do not push myself to help her. If I see she needs help I will offer but before I was too pushy and forced my help on her. And now she has been asking for help (I installed her GPS in her care after she asked (she tried it herself and did not have any luck) ...I have been watching my words because sometimes I am sarcastic and I know it does not go over well. An example was yesterday she said she needed to go to the store to pick up an extension cord for our x mas tree. She was gone for almost 2 hours... The sarcastic Doc would have said “Where did you have to go, china to find it”? But the new Doc just said “did you have a hard time finding what you wanted” It’s amazing how much the little things add up. After being married for 19 years how you do take each other for granted and sometimes become careless with your words...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
