RDW. Your husband can always get another job. But what he cannot get is another you.
Do not let him control you with OW. She will do what she will do. You cannot control that.
You know you both do not even begin to heal until there is No Contact with strong boundaries and full transparancy in place.
Choices and respect. Perhaps it is time for your Husband to start stepping up and making some and showing some respect. You lead by example here.
Below is a quote for you today because you are a great person and need some strength today.
I am strong because I am weak. I am beautiful because I know my flaws. I am a lover because I am a fighter. I am fearless because I have been afraid. I am wise because I have been foolish. & I can laugh because I've known sadness.
