Another thought...time and again I have read that the WAS come back due to their own reasons, separate from what we do. HOWEVER I want to believe in Michele's principles; that our behavior can cause others to change their behavior.Enticing and drawing the WAS back by changing ourselves without chasing is one way.
Chasing never works. I wish I could jump back in time and apply these principles only a few months ago when I chased and pursued. I suppose the only saving grace I have is that it was only a couple of months of chasing. But still.
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why I think it MAY make a difference now is b/c of the stage of the affair.
What stage is the A at?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
