Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

Email from W:


P,

As I feel that I have hurt both you and your family enough I have no wish to hurt your mother or father any more by coming down to with you this weekend. As I am constantly getting mixed messages I feel this is the best action. I had wanted to discuss this with you on Monday but this didn't obviously happen.

As I have no wish to get Step-D a duplicate present for Xmas I thought it best to let you know what I would be buying her as I am sure she has given the same list to you. I was going to get her XYZ and a few other little bits.

Please when you next go into the loft can you get all my Christmas things out of it:

<LIST REMOVED>

That's all i can remember, if it is easier for you to drop these off at work for me than please do so.

Thanks

W


Not sure how to respond so haven't done so yet. I'm actually not really wanting to respond. I have the answer I need. This is the first email I have had from W. Now I have her home number, her email and her mobile. This from somebody who was reluctant to give me any contact details. A couple of things are bothering me:

1. Her email address is <marriedname>@<ISP> - I haven't come across an ISP yet that doesn't allow you to make up your email address so why use her married name. Just irritating.

2. The NC letter made it clear that D and I were moving on with our lives. That to me means no Xmas presents. That is REALLY bothering me. She is completely ignoring what I said.

3. I have made a vow to myself that W get's nothing else out of this house whether it is hers or not. She has taken enough.

4. There is a grain of truth in the mixed messages I have been giving her with my mum, although I disagree with it being constantly as this only happened last Wednesday.

5. She is trying to wrestle control of this situation again by ignoring the IM and the NC letter.

The only thing I wanted to know from W is if she was coming down this weekend. I didn't want to talk about anything else.

Will sit on this and not respond.