Thanks. I will write the list and I did wonder why we couldn't discuss it over the phone. I'm also wondering if she is going to ask if she can take our son away for a holiday as well. I'm taking him to Fiji ( a trip that I originally booked fir the 3 of us ). If she is going to ask, I'm tempted to say no. If she uses me taking our son away, I plan on saying that the trip was for the 3 of us, and I even asked her after the bomb if she still wanted to join us for our sons sake, and she said no. So it us her choice not to join us. I won't have that choice if she wants to take him somewhere. Am I being unreasonable ?
The other thing I was thinking is that I have my son from Thursday through to Saturday at the moment Christmas falls on a friday this year. Theoretically, I should have him Christmas day !
