You know its funny you say that I used to feel that way and somewhere I lost that because of all our financial troubles I started to doubt myself. I know that I will get it back and Im proud of myself as a father, husband and a man....
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
The first time I went away for the weekend, I told my H I didn't know how I would manage without my babies. I told him I didn't know how he did it. He said he was used to being away because he went to work everyday. I think you might be partially right, Britt. It might be easier for some men.
I haven't even had my first time of my kids staying with H and I dread it already.
Ugetvince, you're blessed to have the time with them. You sound like a good dad.
Thank for that...I really feel blessed for my children and I spend everyday and minute that I can with them. I have them all day tomorrow and all try to make every second count!
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
P.S. I think you should take them when you guys planned. If she wants to keep them longer, then she'll ask. Take the opportunity and advantage of spending the entire day with them!
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
Hey questions??? Im having a birhtday party combined next Sat for both my babies..They will be S3 and D1.. Im wondering should I invite my w?? Everyone in my family will be here and im thinking she would probably like to see her son on his birthday(I hope).. My d bithday was this past wed... My w had them that day and had a few people there and a cake. I was not invited.. Just wondering what the right thing to do...
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
Just some info...My confidence went way up this weekend. Went out with some friends for a birthday party. I danced with a very beautiful women. She asked me for my number and told me I was really HOT!! I dont see myself that way but man that really helped...
Me 39 W 33 Married 7yrs Together 10 2 children 3 and 1 Says"She's moving on with her life"
Just some info...My confidence went way up this weekend. Went out with some friends for a birthday party. I danced with a very beautiful women. She asked me for my number and told me I was really HOT!! I dont see myself that way but man that really helped...
Woot! Congrats!
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Trent, Any input on my question about upcoming Birthday Party??
If you want to, tell her when it is and that she's welcome to come, and leave it at that.
Don't pin any hopes on her being there, but you can give her the opportunity to step up for her son's sake.
She can start learning how the rest of her life will go, if you two get divorced and share custody of the kids.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
